“This Is Not The Story You Think It Is: A Season of Unlikely Happiness”
A Memoir by Laura Munson
Laura Munson's Memoire: How it All Began, and How it Touched the Lives of Millions.
The short version of this memoir went viral in the New York Times Modern Love column.
The book came first, and while the entry point is a marital crisis, the essay, and the book, are ultimately about becoming aware of your thought patterns and learning about how they serve and sabotage us.
“A lot of people read that essay and the book worldwide, as it was published in eight countries. What I heard most of all was this:
Thank you for helping me know that I’m not alone.
I think that’s because the book isn’t really about marriage at all. It’s about how to find emotional responsibility and liberation during a time of great pain. It’s not a strategy for how to stay married. It’s a philosophy about how to live your life.”
Written in the midst of personal upheaval, the book examines what it means to take responsibility for one’s own inner life against the odds. It is about choosing how to intentionally meet reality without abandoning oneself.
For many readers, this book marked their first encounter with Laura’s work.
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An Excerpt From Laura's Memoir
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“I don’t love you anymore. I’m not sure I ever did.”
His words came at me like a speeding fist, like a sucker punch, yet somehow in that moment I was able to duck. And once I recovered and composed myself, I managed to say, “I don’t buy it.” Because I didn’t.
He drew back in surprise. Apparently, he’d expected me to burst into tears, to rage at him, to threaten him with a custody battle. Or beg him to change his mind….I really wanted to fight. To rage. To cry. But I didn’t.
Instead, a shroud of calm enveloped me, and I repeated those words: “I don’t buy it.”
Read The Original Essay Published in The New York Times "Modern Love" Column
“Those Aren’t Fighting Words, Dear”
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Laura Munson is a celebrated author and teacher, renowned for her insightful storytelling and transformative writing retreats. With a career highlighted by her New York Times and USA Today best-selling status, Laura has dedicated her life to exploring the depths of human experience through writing. She is the founder of Haven Writing Retreats in Montana, where she guides aspiring writers to find their voice and embrace their creative potential. Her work is a testament to the power of storytelling as a tool for personal growth and self-discovery. If you have a book that’s been sitting on your heart click below to learn about Laura’s Haven 1 Writing Retreat.





